Showing posts with label Weight issue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Weight issue. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

You're too fat to be a teacher, woman told.

NewStraitsTimes.

2009/10/21

KUCHING: When Joanna Gilbert Asson was accepted for a postgraduate course at the Teachers Training College Rajang, she was beside herself with joy. But that joy was scuppered thanks to an insensitive senior official at the college.

Joanna, 29, claimed she was discriminated against when the man told her that she was too fat to become a teacher. She wants the Education Ministry to do something about it.

Joanna claimed the man told her: "You're fat. You can't possibly be a teacher. You look unhealthy, come back next year after you've slimmed down."

A business administration graduate from Universiti Tenaga Nasional, Joanna sat for an examination and was interviewed by a panel from the college on May 19.

After being told that she was successful, she reported to the college on June 22, accompanied by her parents.

She paid the RM300 registration fee, collected additional forms, including those for a medical test and waited for her turn.

It was then that the senior official called her into his office and told her she was fat.

"How can he judge me by my appearance alone? I have not undergone a government medical test but he was confident that I am sick."

Joanna said she went for a medical test at a private hospital before registering, but the college rejected the result because it was not from a government clinic.

In frustration, Joanna wrote to the ministry to withdraw from the course and for a refund of the registration fee.

"During the interview, nothing was said about my weight. They can see from the form that I am 110kg."

State Education director Dr Julaihi Bujang said the college official should not have acted that way but declined to comment further.

The Education Ministry's Teacher Education Division in Putrajaya could not be contacted for comment.


Emmm... what can I say. This girl is bigger than me but I understand the situation that she is in and I salute her for being able to stand up for this kind of "discrimination". She will have to,; first, prepare herself mentally, physically and spiritually in order to go through this ordeal. It is in my opinion like a "rape" trial (I am open for discussion).

As a FAT person, you are always in a different league of people. And it will always gets on my nerve when people 'arranged' their sentences as not to offend me. Please stop. I AM OFFENDED!!! but I had to pulled that straight face so YOU wouldn't be offended by the words that WILL come out of my mouth and believe me I can say a lot of nasty things(if it weren't for HIS Grace.)

I didn't care about it before. I ate because I just love food. Over the years I do realize that I want to live longer, to enjoy my life with my husband. I want to grow old with him, watch my kids grow up, being there when they fall in love; having puppy love, going to college, getting married, have my grandkids and so on... I have to be healthy for them and for myself. That's why I am watching my diet. I was sick last week. I had sore throat, body ache and I was not surprise when the Doc mentioned that my blood pressure was very high and I do felt it. He put me on medication instantly. I ever mentioned to my gynae that I watched my parents being dependent on this medications (both of them are diabetic and having high blood pressure) and I told him that I do not want to live a life like that. I guess he had his point when he said that the medications is what keeping them alive until today. Look like I have to take my medication as if I am taking my vitamins and supplements. My next leave, I am going for a medical check-up which I always tried to avoid. Hey!!! I want to live!!!!!



Sunday, April 26, 2009

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Lately, my fingers are stiff!. It seems that I am at lost of words. I lost ideas on what to write. That's why most of time there is no update in my blog. I feel life is passing by so fast and just a few weeks back I was awaken by a call of 'death' - sound so serious... yes it is that serious.

It made me evaluate all aspect of my life - financially to spiritually and of coz if you are at the brisk of death you look at spiritually most. If you are a follower of my blog than you would have guess my problems and of top of that the same week I sprained my ankle and dad simply diagnosed it as Gout!!!!!! I wouldn't know coz I didn't let a doctor confirmed it - and it is for a simple reason; I am so afraid to know the truth!!.

So my contingency plans now is to loose some weight, exercise and try to eat healthy. If I can shed some of that fat, I will let you know and I promise myself - I will go for a medical check-up.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Nasi ayam, next Laksa.

I received an sms from ND@4.30pm, Sunday; inviting us to mom's coz somebody is cooking chicken rice. Emmmm.... sound good - meaning; free meal for me, good company, delicious food and a time with the whole family(we do this almost every week and next week is Laksa week).

Now, a normal person would not think of anything other than well.... it's just a normal family weekend's dinner. Eek... WRONG!!!!!!

Found out until after dinner that actually mom does not like the idea of me eating out so often. When I deny saying I only do it on weekends she replied - "what about on your working days?" Emmm...she has a point there (at this point of time, all eyes were on me).

Since Beth starting Kindy, I & hubby have been having breakfast together. Breakfast was something we didn't have time to do before - morning was a rush for us...

So, it will be breakfast with hubby and sometimes Fiona, Mary or Stephen, Lunch with Fiona and dinner at mom's.

I gained 5-7kg since - mom's worry, I also worry ..........

Guess I wouldn't be a Kumang Gawai again....

Thursday, April 3, 2008

MY WEIGHT ISSUES

It didn't really bother me until the office said I have to wear the new Uniform. My immediate thoughts were: -

I need to loose 10kg before Monday.......... OR

I need to be pregnant by Monday...... (LOL)

Who ever decided on the colours/materials/fabric are either insane or just being tortuously notoriously idiots (they are not the ones wearing them...). Really, it doesn't compliment my body if I may say so, although they were designed by a well known tailor.

Mom had better ideas. She Detoxed me. I am fully Detoxified today - meaning I wouldn't have to gobble-up the slimy Detox mixture every morning and I wouldn't have to go and sit on my 'throne' 3 to 4 times a day. Don't laugh... It really was a lot...and now I can declare that I have a clean colon. Tomorrow starting a new regime which is to drink the healthy tea.

How lah....I am always like this, if I may say so, I maintain....

I loooove food to much to give it up, I enjoy eating and what's wrong with that, right. I guess I have to think positive.....

See if the tea works.......