Thursday, November 19, 2009

EXcuses, excuses, excuses......

Hello..... My excuse for not updating is I AM BUSY and along the way, I forgotten my log-in password!!!!! I dread the day when I would not be able to tell my stories through this blog. JustDoli
is the rebirth of the sassy, savvy pc me. I hate to restart another blog if it were to happen. God forbid!!!

Anyway, my kids will be having their school break and I am happy coz my weekends are more meaningful - it's family time.

I would love to add but I am tired. Maybe I'll find time soon.

So until then; have a productive what's left of your week...

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

You're too fat to be a teacher, woman told.

NewStraitsTimes.

2009/10/21

KUCHING: When Joanna Gilbert Asson was accepted for a postgraduate course at the Teachers Training College Rajang, she was beside herself with joy. But that joy was scuppered thanks to an insensitive senior official at the college.

Joanna, 29, claimed she was discriminated against when the man told her that she was too fat to become a teacher. She wants the Education Ministry to do something about it.

Joanna claimed the man told her: "You're fat. You can't possibly be a teacher. You look unhealthy, come back next year after you've slimmed down."

A business administration graduate from Universiti Tenaga Nasional, Joanna sat for an examination and was interviewed by a panel from the college on May 19.

After being told that she was successful, she reported to the college on June 22, accompanied by her parents.

She paid the RM300 registration fee, collected additional forms, including those for a medical test and waited for her turn.

It was then that the senior official called her into his office and told her she was fat.

"How can he judge me by my appearance alone? I have not undergone a government medical test but he was confident that I am sick."

Joanna said she went for a medical test at a private hospital before registering, but the college rejected the result because it was not from a government clinic.

In frustration, Joanna wrote to the ministry to withdraw from the course and for a refund of the registration fee.

"During the interview, nothing was said about my weight. They can see from the form that I am 110kg."

State Education director Dr Julaihi Bujang said the college official should not have acted that way but declined to comment further.

The Education Ministry's Teacher Education Division in Putrajaya could not be contacted for comment.


Emmm... what can I say. This girl is bigger than me but I understand the situation that she is in and I salute her for being able to stand up for this kind of "discrimination". She will have to,; first, prepare herself mentally, physically and spiritually in order to go through this ordeal. It is in my opinion like a "rape" trial (I am open for discussion).

As a FAT person, you are always in a different league of people. And it will always gets on my nerve when people 'arranged' their sentences as not to offend me. Please stop. I AM OFFENDED!!! but I had to pulled that straight face so YOU wouldn't be offended by the words that WILL come out of my mouth and believe me I can say a lot of nasty things(if it weren't for HIS Grace.)

I didn't care about it before. I ate because I just love food. Over the years I do realize that I want to live longer, to enjoy my life with my husband. I want to grow old with him, watch my kids grow up, being there when they fall in love; having puppy love, going to college, getting married, have my grandkids and so on... I have to be healthy for them and for myself. That's why I am watching my diet. I was sick last week. I had sore throat, body ache and I was not surprise when the Doc mentioned that my blood pressure was very high and I do felt it. He put me on medication instantly. I ever mentioned to my gynae that I watched my parents being dependent on this medications (both of them are diabetic and having high blood pressure) and I told him that I do not want to live a life like that. I guess he had his point when he said that the medications is what keeping them alive until today. Look like I have to take my medication as if I am taking my vitamins and supplements. My next leave, I am going for a medical check-up which I always tried to avoid. Hey!!! I want to live!!!!!



Friday, October 9, 2009

We are sailing!!!!!

Ready or not we are sailing tomorrow. We are having the grand opening of The Toda's Ark Veterinary Center located at the Medan University, Kota Samarahan at 1010hours 10October09. If you are reading this, come and join, support us. It is a family effort, family business and we like to share our 'cruise' with you.

Sudi-sudi hadirkan diri.

I will blog about it after the event.

Thank you.

Monday, October 5, 2009

I should be paid for blogging these......


Yeah..... I had the honor of having Fiona as my lunch partner again last week becoz somebody was on leave. Suddenly we had this urged for Japanese....

We always love to go to Tomoe; Jalan Mendu for it's pizza.. Don't ask me how to make it - I just eat. One thing I can assure you is that it is delicious and mostly veges..(healthy food). Now the pictures below were squid, chicken, prawn with veges. I don't know what they call it but it's yummy too.....


Enough about food.

Condolences to Marianna; my sister-in-law on the passing away of her beloved mother today at 9am@GH. May she rest in peace. Anna is Mayfri's (my husband's brother) wife and this happen when the family is still mourning for Ryan; Vivia's (my husband's sister) husband.

My heart feel the pain but you know, one thing that I've learn - It is alright to feel sad and to mourn. Sad because Robin will never know Ryan, sad because Mccollie would never hear her grandma's laughter and the voices that so familiar and who had took care of her from baby and mourning for Vivia who suddenly a widow and only been married to Ryan(who should have turned 30 yesterday) for less than 2 years and for Anna who suddenly lost her pillar and strenght. It's ok... but it hurt so much...........

Sunday, September 27, 2009

A dog and a chicken.......

This is Angela's Spike. He came in to the clinic yesterday for castration. It was the first time hubby help in the operation so I took this photo just for remembrance. I am no dog lover ok; I love cats but over the years my affection are more towards my own babies and not kittens or puppies. Anyway, the operation was done in less than 1 1/2 hours and by that time they were so messy.........

The enlightenment for the day was when a guy brought in his chicken for consultation......

It was funny....... I just had to tell everybody......

but again if it is something or some one's treasure and love so much; it doesn't make any difference, right; be it a German Shepherd or a Fighting Cock. So who's laughing now?

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Service level

We had just realized that Ezra need not go to school until next week. Ha!!! How 'sensitive' can one be.... Anyway, I got to do things that I need to do today and Am happy about it. Do you ever have the feeling that when you are so used to "Nearly Perfection" you wouldn't be happy with just ok - that was how I felt about the process of opening an account with local bank!!! But I refuse to go low to that standard so I am just going to leave that at this.

EPF...... emmmm service very fast but I feel my first contact should be more beneficial. I am talking about the receptionist. She should get all the form ready with her. I had to get a number and wait just to be given a form (by guy called Hardy), filled the form, went back to her again just to get another number to checked whether I filled it correctly, done so; went back to her to get another number just to be called by Hardy again to acknowledged my application.

At least I did all these before noon.... and the fact that Hardy was using baju melayu and in the spirit of raya; I refuse to go low to that standard and so, I am again leaving it at this.

Catherine is on her way back from the state (she's on the plane as I type..). She was there for 3 years and I just want to welcome her home and I can't wait to meet up with her...

Friday, September 18, 2009

Selamat Hari Raya...

I'll be having a long break next week. I don't know whether I have time to do my personal things but I guess what ever it is, I'll make it a point to enjoy it. Selamat Hari Raya to all my Muslim readers and friends.